Monday, April 13, 2009

Why most of men ignore small stuff, that women cares?

most men never likes to do flower arrangement, they don%26#039;t care about how the room should be
Why most of men ignore small stuff, that women cares?
Say
FlowersBirthday FlowersSympathy FlowersWe are not being horrible or anything but we simply dont care that much about these things. It is not a bad thing it is merely that we are different.





I cant imagine you really care much about some of the stuff we take seriously :)
Reply:It all goes back to that hunter/gather theory. Men tend to focus on one thing at a time and women see the larger picture. Men don%26#039;t seem to %26quot;sweat the small stuff%26quot; and women seem to get caught up in the small stuff. That%26#039;s why it seems that in some cases, men and women don%26#039;t understand each other.
Reply:because we are practical in nature and care more for the uses of things, like will it make the room smell nice instead of asthetic appeal...
Reply:some men do but they want their mannlyness to show more than their soft side thats all
Reply:they dont, only most women thought they dont, actually
Reply:women dont care about the small stuff men like either, its life ppl like different things,everybody is different in there own little ways..
Reply:simple mind simple pleasure we could give two craps about if the flowers are moist enough, if they look pretty okay then next project, we like to build and tear stuff down, not arrange flowers and tie ribbons...
Reply:mine do the flower thing and is very clean, but not all are the same. the whole thing is they are men and thats what theyll be.
Reply:cuz woman do the same
Reply:because we dont men are clutterblind.
Reply:most men are shallow, then factor in peer pressure from the other males and bingo, no man wants to be called funny unless they are.
Reply:It%26#039;s not in their nature. You can%26#039;t change them...believe me.
Reply:Men don%26#039;t want to show usually how they really feel so they say they don%26#039;t care, and thats what they think makes then more notice, but I think girls like guys that don%26#039;t ignore things.
Reply:man consider very important things in life, they always think of the long term effects and spends time working on their dreams that is why they don%26#039;t pay attention on small things that woman cares about.
Reply:because they are men. They take no interest in things until it becomes a bother to them. Not all men are like that, but most. But let us tell them that we are not interested in the tool section at sears, then we are just shallow and we don%26#039;t care or understand them. Go figure.
Reply:becoz they know that these women are made these small stuff to care.


Dear, u can%26#039;t say wat is small stuff n wich stuff is big...





If women cares to do flower arrangement n care how the room should be, then the men cares for, how their women are looking in public n wat they are wearing... these are again small stuff for women, but men cares for this...





nothing is small stuff for anybody, if something is small for women then something is also small stuff for men..


both men n women thinks differently...n thats the way the world is going.....
Reply:Because we as men speak a different language. We need you to explain to us exactly what it is that you need and how we are to do it. Even if we get it the first time you will have to continue to do this over and over until it becomes natural. Example: You could love to have quality time which to you means you tale he listens with no distractions like TV etc.. He could enjoy quality time as well, but his definition of quality time is you sitting with him while he watches his favorite game on TV. This is the difference in the love languages of Females and Males.genealogy mormon

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